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In defining why things happen in
LIFE ... there is no way of coming up with an explanation, until the day comes when a brick hits you in the head, and you suddenly remember,
'Oh, maybe that's what that meant!'It was less than a week ago that I received an e-mail from ARTHUR SAYÃO LOBATO saying, "Mason ... is this REALLY YOU?"
I was shocked to know that 'Big Art' was possibly walking back into my LIFE after all of these years.
I can remember being on the radio at KOKU-FM (Hit Radio 100) in the Micronesian Islands, when Art came strolling through the doors in 1986, and it was the beginning of a friendship ... leaving some very treasured moments, and thought 'Gone' except in the hallowed shadows of my mind.
The last time I saw Art was in the early nineties, when we were on a 'Cave Dive' in Gainesville, Florida where Art was on his way to being a Dive Master among his many accomplishments. The 'Cave Dive' (a 120' hole) sounds more impressive than it really was, since Art and I had been on many 'Dives' that were very adventurous 'Wreck Dives' and at depths sometimes at a hundred and thirty feet. What was even more challenging is we often jumped from a pier with full dive gear to swim to a wreck in the middle of the Apra Harbor, which has to be at least two football fields. Peter Peterson, who was my diving instructor and later, business associate was responsible for getting me hooked on diving and convincing Art, 'Hey this will be cool ... lets go." http://www.mdaguam.com/tokaimaru.htm
There were more than a few dives on that wreck ... and a few other wrecks, that turned into night dives ... not to mention some experiences that seem hardly believable ... that it had anything to do with radio or broadcasting whatsoever. But, it was how Arthur and I spent a lot of our time ... either in the radio station or diving the holes and caves of Guam.
Arthur was on Guam mainly against his family's wishes, since he ran off to join the Navy as a young kid, but finally "Saw the Light" after doing his duty and immediately got back on track ... returning to school and following in the family's way of being a success. Arthur's father was a very successful and important member of the Shell organization, and certainly left him with that same fortitude for achieving success. I guess his mother was partly responsible ... if not more so than 'the old man' but, alas ... 'BIG ART' has turned himself into the businessman he was always destined to be.
Arthur has always had a fascination for being in radio, since we have laughed 'Our Asses Off' in the course of being in a production room creating commercials for clients ... but more importantly ... I firmly believe 'He GETS it!' Now more than ever ... it is exciting to see him doing so well.
In just the last week, Arthur was surprised to know that I was doing this 'Radio Thingy', much less the 'Writing Thing' and started sending me 'Numbers' and 'Ideas' and it was like watching his swirling little head ... all over again, about ready to explode with excitement ... thinking: 'What can it become?'
I am so glad ... just to hear from Art and know that: he now has a beautiful family, and traveling between his home in Sao Paulo, Brazil and his other home Chicago, where he is graduating with honors and will be receiving his MBA from the University of Chicago in less than two months, while he works in the stock market.
Hearing from 'Big Art' made me laugh ... and laugh some more, remembering the friendship that I shared with some like this, that: I have only shared with only a very few. But, it made me really smile when he said, "Mason, I really think you're on the right track with http://www.RockandRollHeaven.net you just need a GREAT business plan ... and that's the easy part!"
I'm not going to tell you what I told him, but it had something to do with diving! I know Radio is changing, and so is business ... and I do know that: things happen for a reason. I'm a firm believer, "I didn't go through what I went through ... just to become who I am today for ... nothing."
Those of you who have read the many articles that were here before, and removed ... already know that I am here to persevere, because 'I believe I will.' I already know that 'Big Art' is moving through 'IT' as well. I'm just very happy to know he remembers the GOOD TIMES and how precious FAMILY, FRIENDS and LIFE can be. I am POSITIVE it wasn't for nothing.
I am VERY GLAD to see you Art and to know "I haven't lost you in TIME."